Don't let "story telling" become a "story telling"

"Stories," this word  brings out the kid hidden within each one of us. "Story Telling" was one such competition in school, wherein most of us participated. It is also the favorite activity of every golden ager. We heard lots of stories in our childhood. It specially help children to imagine. What if we cannot imagine things? Can we really make our dreams come true? Few may say " I do not waste time in day dreaming, instead, would go and get what I want." There lies a difference between "day dreaming" and "imagining". If you cannot really "imagine" what you exactly want, you are definitely wasting time in being a day dreamer. Every dream needs to be imagined.

                      Earlier grandparents at home used to tell many stories. I still remember all the stories I heard and read. I definitely say it helped me in creative thinking, dream and imagine things just like I want them to happen, and a hope to make all my dreams come true.

                    It is also a good exercise to brains of both the speaker and the listener too. So, open the story books, or your brain which can create several stories. Let us not make "story telling was once upon a time..!!"  but let us begin the story from, "once upon a time,."

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"LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL"

                                 
                                           God created human beings for a reason.There are lot many things one has to do other than just living. The problem is everybody knows the key to happiness, but most of them have lost the key.There are a lot of success mantras, healthy life mantras, so many mantras for maintaining good relationships, both personally and professionally.Yet there are several problems a man cannot face, trying to run far away from the problem and finally naming it as "depression" and found an easy way to solve the problems all at once which is committing suicide.

                                           Be it a man or a woman, stress is being faced by everyone, not only professionally but also personally.It just depends on us as how well we handle it.Everybody think that people who commit suicide are cowards.But the truth is they are very brave, but show their bravery by taking wrong decisions.Because lot of guts are needed to die.This is one of the reasons to maintain body or body guards.

                                          Everybody are afraid of death.All of us wants to live.Though people are not afraid of God, at least not everybody, (because they are dare enough to make mistakes), all of them are afraid of death. Now the point is, "why are people showing their bravery in silly things like committing suicide?"

                                          First of all, before taking such a decision, think how many people are fighting for their lives in hospitals, how many people are starving on the road side.Then the problem seems to be very small comparatively.In fact a tiny problem doesn't need a huge solution.We can also "drop" it like we do in exams, if we do not know the answer for the question asked.People repent at most of the decisions they take, but once after committing suicide there is never a chance to get life back.

                                         If the problem is love failure, then show the person that love can never be failed, but the person failed in receiving the love.He/She is not the only person on the planet, at least definitely not in the place like India, which is over populated.Instead show the other person that you can find even a better person who deserves to become your "life partner".

                                        If the problem is regarding educational stress,professional stress etc, show the other person that you can do much better than them. Instead of wasting time on searching for the ways to die, think about how to show people that you too can rock.There lies the "success".Now there is a meaning for your life.

                                       Look there!! You found your key to happiness. Hold it tight, "say cheese" and "freeze" it.

                                                   














































                                  

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Vacation these days..!!

                Village is something which people can make best use of vacation.Day starts with early morning enjoyments in the fields,and ends with late night chitchatting with cousins.Those days enjoyed in the village gives wholesome of energy required for the coming whole year.Those secret talks with cousins,small fights and quarrels might have been experienced by almost everyone in the childhood.The whole year would go on,waiting just for the summer vacation.

                 But now,everything has been changed.The busy lives of people,summer coaching classes,etc has made us so busy that we don't find any break  or a gap other than Sunday which almost goes in sleeping.

                Do you think the kitty parties,laughing clubs are really necessary for us if the days are just the same,like how they were earlier??

                Weekend parties in pubs, replaced weekend outings with family,laughing clubs replaced family get-together.Why are we in such a miserable situation that we need to laugh forcibly by going to laughing clubs, to keep ourselves healthy. Are we so busy that we do not even find time to be happy even for a little while in one whole day??

                 We name ourselves "busy bees" and post "happy Anniversary" or happy birthday" even to our close ones. Are we so busy that we cant even spend some time with them personally instead of posting the stuff on social networking sites. Though 'fb' and twitter has friends and family to be in touch with,we still look at it as "fb and twitter" to pass time rather than maintaining relations.

                 When cities has changed so much,why will the villages be the same? That greenery all around,that peaceful life has completely transformed.It is good to know that they are being developed.But change is always not positive as it always carries a negativity with it.Because now even if people meet,those late night talks changed to messaging or talking on phones which is definitely not with each other.

                  Sometimes a thought comes,as why such technology exists which keeps the relation distant,and eat all our time and name us "busy bees".

                 Happy to say that at least few of us have those sweet childhood memories which are away from the so called "new generation" who are very well versed in the usage of technology like mobile phones etc,from a very young age.

                 After all memories remain the same,though the "busy life" never ever changes..!!

                

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"Safety of girl" has become a joke in the society..!!

                     
                          "Woman" has always been a confusion in the society. I am saying this because, "woman" is the strongest person who gives life, bearing all the pain happily. Women are the only one who can equally bear all the stress in the family as well as in the work place outside, without showing it off in anger or other form. When a mother and a sister is respected, why don't people give the same respect even to other girls. Of course, enjoyment up to a limit like teasing, or passing funny comments is fine. But crossing those limits is definitely not acceptable. Though the gal may not be a strong as the guy who teases her, she would definitely dare to slap him.
                        The recent case in Guwahati, in which a gal has been molested by  more than 20 cruel men, shows how safe girls actually are..!! In spite of the gal literally begged them to leave her, they were in such a disgust condition that they can only show off their vulgar heroism and pose for pictures to a reporter who was recording all that. ( Though the reporter tried to stop them, they were in no mood to behave like humans. So he had to record everything. Thanks to him, at least the govt. has got a chance to recognize the faces of those hu"man"-animals.) In spite of such big worst situation happening, people could not even dare to stop them, shame on those irresponsible people. It reminds me of "Droupadi's" story which we read in our epics. Unfortunately, there is no Lord Krishna in this 21st century, to stop the nuisance.

                          Though "women" are strong enough to even live in space, do wonders in every stage, why are they are still considered as weak in the society. We are still in the situation to just dream for the rights and independency of women. Sorry to Ghandhiji, who dreamt of an independent country, in which "women" can reach home safely even after 10 in the night. Being in such a society, today it is even difficult to assure safety for women even during the day time.
                             

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Sweet memories are the treasure of life

Life has become so busy!! Right from sweet sixteen's to sweet sixty's, everybody are busy in their own work. The little time which we get, we are spending on social networking. Apart from thinking whether it is a good change or not, it is time to think how far we are going from the so called "real relations". Most of the people say that they are very emotional. But being emotional in their view is to feel bad or cry when others show little anger or hurt. But they do not actually realize that being emotional is to feel bad even when we hurt others badly.
                     Today we cannot imagine a single day without mobile. But a few years ago, there were no mobiles at all. Even then people were so happy and normal. Now we find very less families sitting together on a holiday, eat and spend time in chatting with each other. My dad keeps on telling his childhood days, when we both sit and talk to each other. But I wonder whether my children would have the patience to sit and listen to all that, because there may be a new rule to have an account (in any of the existing social networking sites) along with the birth certificate in the coming years. So probably they may ask me to "share" everything on the "wall" instead of sharing personally with them.
                       So at least once in a week, spending time with the family gives real and true happiness. All of us are leading a busy life, but that life has become so busy only for ourselves and our family, so that we can spend the whole life happily together. So find a little time for true happiness which gives us lots and lots of sweet memories for our future. Because "Sweet memories reminds us of the roads we have traveled and the people we have loved."

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